They had each seen and participated in relationships and other systems that struggled to create and sustain working and fulfilling connections. In spite of best efforts and genuine desire, people often end up in the wrong place, feeling frustrated, hurt, disappointed and unhappy. Both Melissa and Bedford were determined to find the healing ground where individuals and relationship systems could find spiritual and emotional health and new possibilities. In her work in the corporate world, as well as in personal relationships, Melissa became aware that systems break down at critical junctures--at those points, addictive behaviors frequently prevented healthy connections from forming and impeded problem solving. Less than desirable results followed. Melissa had begun her own personal recovery process and began to see and experience her life's meaning.
Bedford worked as a family therapist for several years before discovering, through work with early mentors, what he knew intuitively: Generating healing for his own internal system would be essential to be effective in his work as a therapist and in his personal life. As this work unfolded, the Heartstream Journey Week was born and moved through its early development in the 1980s.
Melissa left the corporate world and developed her practice as a massage therapist/bodyworker, focusing on how emotional issues manifest in the body with an emphasis on how physical and sexual trauma is held in the body. Her work at that time centered on the physical healing process. She used her training in bodywork, many years of intensive personal therapy, and later, a three-year ordination process, as a springboard to developing her gifts as a natural healer in a variety of capacities.
Bedford continued to seek his own personal and professional development and began providing training and personal growth workshops throughout the US in the late '80s and early '90s. Those days of expansion and learning were wonderful in many ways and the "Treatment Week" as it was called then, thrived as many miracles unfolded.
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The intensive format sparked hundreds of new beginnings and hope abounded. However, the "final frontier" of a healthy, evolving, primary partnership eluded him until 1995.
When Melissa and Bedford joined their heartstreams, they knew that for their relationship to thrive, they would need to develop a new system, a new way, for differences and conflicts to become healing experiences. Romance and initial excitement invariably gives way to "Phase II," involving power impasses and the emergence pre-existing inner dynamics. Every couple faces the true challenge of primary relationships.
The Joining Heartstreams Couples Workshop is a result of this personal quest that Melissa and Bedford deeply embraced. The workshop is built around the "Four Quarters Container" system which emerged as a result of many years of exploration, study, personal growth and, finally, a joint birthing of this process in 1996. The workshop and Nashville couples groups were then born and have continued to develop and bless many. Couples work is now also integrated into the Heartstream Journey Week with, initially surprising - but now understood - deepening results for both the couples and individuals. Bedford and Melissa have created and continue to generate programs that are life changing. Since inception, Heartstream Journeys have touched over 9,000 lives both in the US and internationally.